The Girl with the Golden Hair – Love Affairs 外遇萬千燦爛像繁星

Size: 50 x 60 cm

Medium: Acrylic

Year of work: 2018

The creation of this painting was inspired by a Hong Kong singer Candy Lo, she had a song saying that people who are involved in extramarital affairs are just losers, and it is pointless to survive in a relationship as the no.4 nor the no.5 of a man. Well, this kind of story happens every day, just like the uncountable numbers of stars in the Milky way doesn't it. I truly don’t understand why girls are willing to fight for this kind of love. The teacher who taught me Criminal Psychology said women who believed they had no choice in their lives, usually chose to be stuck in the domestic violence environment or to stay with their men who were not loyal to them...

To be frank, there are many choices out there in this big World. Do not hold on to the so-called concept “I am the winner”. It’s meaningless, you will still lose at the end. What will you lose? You yourself, the whole life, whilst looping yourself in the fights. Please follow your heart and make a wise decision for yourself, please believe your bravery will bring you to a bigger and beautiful picture even the decision could be very sad to make!

靈感來自歌手盧巧音的一首歌的歌詞。嘗試畫了整個銀河系來表達那些外遇多不勝數的情況。有時真搞不懂女生們何必要把自己捲入這種鬥爭中。以前讀犯罪心理學時，那課關於家暴，記得老師説過：「她們不離開現在的環境，因爲她們覺得自己沒有選擇。」

世界很大，男人很多，別執著於獲取所謂勝利。盧巧音這歌詞裏也説了：「我們無人能得勝 …… 捱得到第四者 …… 捱得到第五者 煞風景。」

事實是，看似的勝利，最終其實你也是輸了。輸了自己，輸了整個人生，在這些鬥爭中無限輪回。致那個面對這種情況的你能夠作出一個忠於自己的決定，或許過程會不舒服，也會難過。但，請相信，這個勇敢的決定一定會為你帶來一個更廣闊更美好的天地。